GIVE GOOD 2 GET GOOD :)

Since the day I said "I DO" My BETTER half :) Has ALWAYS said to me "U GET what U GIVE".... His Dad passed away last Wens day.... What an ordeal it has been for me.... I mentioned once that WE are a paycheck to paycheck family.... 'Im SURE MANY American families can relate.... We received a phone call from his sister in New Zealand that there Dad was BACK in the hospital :( WE WHERE planing on taking our family to New Zealand this October for the celebration of his 90th Birthday. Later on Monday night his Mom calls & says Dad's condition is deteriorating & Doctors say there is very little they can do. My husband worked Monday night & called me to tell me he wants to go see his Dad.... I WAS SOOOO ON BOARD with the idea.... SO Tuesday we ran around & made phone calls like we had NO TOMORROW, by sunset he had his ticket to leave the next morning. He makes it to LAX(Los Angels) Airport & receives the phone call that his father just passed. When He called to tell me, my heart split in two.... I wished I could be there with him to at least have someone to be with when a blow that low comes.....I Cried thinking of him in an airport ALONE when he get's that kind of news.... UGHHHHH still makes me teary just thinking of it.... His plane finally boards & he is on his way to his family. New Zealand is a day ahead of us soooo he gets there Friday Morning but his Dad passed Thursday after noon.... I MISS HIM SOOOO MUCH & MY HEART Aces for him. While he is gone in a time that I know is difficult, I have TRUELY COME TO KNOW "Distance MAKES the heart GROW FONDER" :) LOVE MY BOSS :)

Since he's been gone SOOOO Many people have called to check on me & my kids. I've been thinking about what he always say's " U GET what U GIVE " The Tongan Community is the most UNSELFISH!!! People that are acquaintance's that just HEARD his Dad has passed has HELPED in sooooo many ways!!! Not just financially but spiritually & mentally :)  MY Family has been ABSOLUTELY ASTONISHING because I know we all have NOTHING but yet in tough times they give EVERYTHING :) When push comes to shove its ALWAYS YOUR FAMILY thats there when U fall & need a hand getting up!!!  I talk to Tuia every night & He always reminds me that ALL the things I tell him I am now grateful for is because we are SOUL BELIEVERS in "What go's around, comes around" Which at times of hardship are a very MASSIVE BLESSING..... I have always felt that MY HUSBAND is my reward for ALL the GOOD things I had done BEFORE I meet him :) & I know... All thou we don't have much the intent that we have along with the act of GIVING makes us richer beyond this world :)) being GOOD, Doing GOOD, & Giving GOOD only returns to you GOOD THINGS :) I can't wait till he comes home & am grateful that he can be with his Mother @ this time :) I LOVE MY Tu'aefe family & I do WHAT I CAN, WHEN I CAN to make OUR world a place of harmony :) R.I.P Tevita Tu'aefe Till we meet again, Family's are FOREVER :)